We all have the habit of looking in the mirror and telling ourselves we are imperfect. Of course, we are not perfect because every human has certain flaws and imperfections. Those ready to accept their imperfections become winners in the life race. Conversely, those trying to be perfect in every element end up with disappointment, stress, anger, and depression.
Kristina Mand-Lakiani explains everything you must know about accepting yourself and embracing your flaws to boost your self-esteem. Upon reading #Becoming Flawesome: The Key to Living an Imperfectly Authentic Life, you will learn how to live a happy life by accepting flaws and boosting your self-esteem.
How to accept your flaws
We know that accepting flaws is challenging. But Kristina has mentioned a few easy steps to ease the process of self-acceptance. You can take help from these steps and travel on the path of leading the greatest and most authentic life.
- Define the flaw or imperfection that troubles you. Then, evaluate whether you can do anything about the flaw. Some flaws can change with little effort, while others may not. For instance, bad temper and impatience do not change easily. Unfortunately, loving your weird behavior leads to negativity and impacts your life significantly. So, the flaw you decide to love must impact your positive energy and inner peace.
- Next, find the positivity and peace to define your biggest imperfection and something wishing to change in yourself. Be honest when evaluating your flaws. Remember that flaws that come naturally will not be changed. Thus, having something imperfect is what you need to accept and then start loving.
- Do you know that flaws can change your view of perception? Sometimes, we indulge in flaws and forget to look at our positive life. So, try to imagine your flaws from a different perspective. It helps observe whether your flaws are horrible or offensive. It lets you make the right decision on whether to embrace the flaws.
- Once you have observed your flaws from other’s perspectives and witnessed that they do not look horrible, it is time to accept the imperfection. Learning self-acceptance is the right tool to live an authentic life. It makes you lead a life without worrying and depressing about something.
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